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It doesn't work any more like it used to work. If you're looking for a sugar baby AFFseek.com
for sure will work better. Better and quicker. Seeking Arrangement is pointless even if you're looking for a prostitute because it's full of scam. They don't hold any responsibility for any contact or arrangement that you make through their service, so it's just useless. What is there to pay for if there are no guarantees? Scammers are very happy with this place. They never get excluded from it.

Seeking markets itself as an elite dating platform centered around mutually beneficial relationships. In practice, the experience feels far less refined and far more misleading than advertised.

A surprising number of the men on the platform appear to be older divorcees still navigating unresolved personal lives. Many profiles present themselves as successful and desirable, yet the expectations placed on women are often unrealistic and highly one-sided. There seems to be an underlying belief that women should arrive with near-perfect physiques, endless admiration, and a willingness to fit quietly into someone else’s already established life.

What becomes clear very quickly is that the dynamic on this platform often revolves around *what the woman can provide*, rather than any genuine sense of mutual exchange. The tone of many interactions feels transactional, self-focused, and oddly entitled. It is not uncommon to encounter men who expect companionship, attention, and flexibility while offering very little curiosity about the woman’s goals or desires.

One conversation in particular captured this imbalance perfectly. I spoke with a divorced man with children who said he wanted a partner willing to embrace his family. When I asked if he would support a future partner having children of her own someday, his answer was an immediate no. That level of self-interest says a lot — expecting someone to invest in your life while denying them the possibility of building their own.

Another frustrating aspect of the platform is the complete lack of communication etiquette. Considering the expensive membership costs, you would assume users would at least engage with messages. Instead, many profiles remain silent. Messages go unread or unanswered indefinitely. A simple “not interested” would show basic courtesy and confirm someone actually looked at your profile. The silence suggests many users either lack social awareness or simply enjoy collecting attention without participating.

Profiles themselves often feel cold, vague, and performative. Many emphasize being “extremely busy,” which raises a fair question: if someone is too busy for life, why are they on a dating app in the first place? Relationships require time, communication, and presence — none of which seem to be priorities for many users here.

Ultimately, Seeking presents an image of sophistication, exclusivity, and mutually beneficial relationships. In reality, the experience frequently feels imbalanced, impersonal, and filled with individuals seeking admiration rather than connection. For an app that charges a premium price, the culture on the platform leaves a great deal to be desired.

Used to be good till about 2002...now it a lot of hookers and sex workers. Hard to find a decent encounter. Women telling you they want $500 -$700 per meet??? And you report them but its like SA doesnt care. Very bad customer service....Not for me.

Hideous men with shocking morals. Time wasters. Usually either desperate married men who just need a shag, time wasters who just want a w$nk or men who have a very disturbing attitude towards women. A sad indictment of society.

I agree with the two members who posted this week about the negative experiences. First of all, I met a few women on the site before, who absolutely were amazing and decent and are there for genuine help and appreciative of your help. But this was years back. The site now turned out to be a degraded and shameful site and the women nowadays you see on the site are either prostitutes or just entitled or scammers or lazy scammer guys putting womens pictures and demanding money to make their livelihood.

This site is nothing but treating women like princesses. The site is structured that way where a guy pays for a membership fees and even has to treat a prostitute or a ghetto with utmost respect and tolerate every nonsense and entitlement act they throw at you. Even the ugliest of the ugliest will come and expect someone is going to pay them tons of money to meet them for dinner. ( what a joke!! ) Obviously the women most of the time don’t have to pay for the site so they will be rude with you and use a new email to create a new profile every couple of days and come with some fake pictures, so literally no loss to them. In a way the site is promoting prostitution in a legal way. And the guys are paying for the website to run and the employees who are working. But then the guys will take their abuse because whatever the women complain about even when it could be a false thing, the Seeking Customer Service will make you watch a video and will suspend your membership either for a day or forever and keep your money happily for free. No refunds no accountability, no replies to your emails and obviously the best thing for them is no phone numbers. Because they have to keep all those scammers, out of state people, legal prostitutes, and promoters on the site so that they can market for other guys and show that they have 10 women for one guy and create a trap door. ;)

They don’t have customer service number and the customer service member will address your issue maybe after a few days or a week whenever they want to until then your account can be inactive while you’re losing money almost 5 dollars a day at current membership fees.

The CEO claims to help guys by creating this website, but he is like a parasite who just makes money off of the guys by creating the trap doors and taking their loneliness and wanting company. The website is purely a prostitution site, but they claim to be a dating site and if you really fall for the trap and go thinking that it’s a dating site then every woman will block you because they are there just for you paying money to sleep with them or worst case scenario to fall for their scams of “ send money for the Uber ride” “ send money so that I can get my nails done to look beautiful when we meet” . So if you tell the woman that you are there for dating, they will just think you are an idiot and advise you to join match.com or E Harmony.

I had not been on the site for long time now, and I saw the made their membership fees, triple than what it used to be, and heard my friends experiences about how there are more women nowadays who have STDs on the site and no wonder as they want Company for a couple of hours and few of them openly told my friends that they have to meet other people on the same day. So imagine if somebody is sleeping with 30 or 40 different guys a month, how can they be safe or clean? The woman look at it as they get $$$ per meet so they can meet different guys and make a six figure salary every year with no education and no degree.

The worst. Total BS, had a girl meet me for coffee, ask for 1K to go back to my place which I politely declined. She said she will report me but I ignored it since I did nothing wrong. Guess what, Seeking put my account on hold then forced me to watch a video and agree to not committing crimes (really?) and then wanted my government ID to verify me. F U Seeking! That is a violation of privacy and you ban someone even when zero evidence is provided of wrongdoing.

J'ai réactivé mon profil sur ce site depuis 48H, et pour l'heure, expérience mitigée. J'ai contacté 3 hommes dans la ville où j'habite et me suis prise 3 vents, mon annonce a étée censurée à plusieurs reprises par la modération car des termes tels que "fétichisme" ou "massage" sont interdits sur ce site lol. Toute annonce à connotation sensuelle/érotique est d'emblée censurée, alors que si on vient sur seeking, c'est pas pour jouer au scrabble... Repéré quelques profils d'hommes qui semblent être des fakes. Le seul mec qui m'a contactée a un profil vide, et j'ignore ses intentions... Là dans l'immédiat, ce site me donne l'impression d'être une arnaque, je reste encore quelques jours pour voir...

The only thing that can happen there is you can get milked of your money by overseas scammers. Sites like AFFlirt.com
offer a good choice of genuine girls (especially if you are from a big city) and if you know basic manners in communication with the women it won't take you long to go on a date. The only genuine people I met on SeekingArrangement were two mature ladies who lived in the countryside quite far away from me. They were not what I was looking for so when I realized how useless SeekingArrangement was I left it.

Long review ahead. Someone here needs to say what we're all thinking, might as well be me. Most of us are aware of how awful not only meeting people is but how extra awful the online dating market is. You haven't seen anything yet until you sign up for this site as a man and sift through a handful of profiles in your area.
The first thing you'll notice is how the same 20 profiles in your city are the only ones online every day (we'll get to the reason in a minute). You may see her nice long hair, her nice smile, and maybe some other 'attributes' that make you ask yourself how in the world has she not been snatched up yet and found herself the perfect guy who she locks down and vice versa. Look no further than the entitlement and how stuck up she is in her profile when you make that click...

"I expect this type of lifestyle. Don't message me if. Tall guys only. Spoil me this and that and buy me gifts. I like fine dining this and that. I want to travel. If you can't spoil and pamper don't message. Etc etc etc"
Notice something? You will be hard pressed to find any of these foolish and selfish women mentioning what the man she's expecting to provide for her gets in return. Just a whole lot of I...I...me..me and no us..us...you...we. You are literally just an ATM and bailout machine with legs. Gents, stop entertaining these types of women. Start thinking with another organ and save provisions for someone who will appreciate and respect it.

Half of them act confused that you want something in person and are confused that she's not amazing enough to just wire things to. Not even the attractive looking ones either. The hogs who weigh two times your weight with green hair and metal coming out of their face will have even worse demands and requirements up and down their bios. They'll leave you on read if you aren't a 6 foot 7 multitrillionaire too.
We have a SERIOUS problem with entitlement in this dating world and country. You used to get an actual relationship with an understanding from this site but now you are just the bill payer tucked in a drawer somewhere that she only brings 3% of effort to if you're lucky.
**Yes - There are some super sweet women on here. Good luck finding them now.**

I haven't gotten to the functionality of the site. Overall it's 'ok' but now you can't even hide profiles from the main window. You have to fully open their profile and pick hide/block from a tiny dropdown. If I see pink hair and metal coming out of your face I would like to simply hide you and not have to pull up your profile and do all these extra steps. The home screen when you first sign in is completely useless and shows people from 8+ states away and in places on the other side of North America (i.e. Canada).
I also don't trust their verifications. It feels like they're slapping "picture verified" onto fake profiles to make it look like this site is more trustworthy but you get the same online relationship only bs that I touched on above. Furthermore, why in the world can we not filter out married and open relationships?? I am not here to share you and do your partner's job, I should be able to turn you completely invisible on my feed.

Here's the best part. There have been probably 3 price increases and the stuck up attitudes have increased with the prices. Now sitting at $150USD I can't think of any reason that this is worth the money. I used to speak highly of the site. But now Seeking owes everyone an explanation for why on this green Earth they think they are worth anywhere near that for 30 days.

Here we are with a new experience from new friends. I had posted a few times before as I want to help others from this prostitution and scam website.

I thought I heard everything from my friends and seen everything from a couple of months on me being on the website. But here is the new type of scam and a traumatic incident which my friend had. So he was talking to this woman who said she was 21 years old and gives my friend her phone number and my friend texted her. She was sending him her nude pictures and sent at least seven pictures as per him and said that she wanted to meet him. And few hours passed by as he was taking his time to decide whether to meet her or not in the meantime, she texted him and said that she is in trouble and wanted my friend to drive to her and rescue her and he contacted the Seeking Customer Service, before even they could take an action on her she already deleted her profile from the website ( this is a fun thing for the Seeking Customer Service bastards who want women to join for free so it could be a guy acting like a woman or it could be a woman who could tell all BS stories and doing all illegal stuff because of the greed of seeking.com of stealing money from men, but no accountability for any woman) and then my friend tried to contact law-enforcement but the phone number she gave was a burner number and there was no information they could get with that phone number.

After a couple of hours, he started receiving calls from some unknown men who were acting like the caretaker of the girl and demanding my friend to pay $8000 in cryptocurrency or else they will call law enforcement to tell that he kidnapped her!!!!!!

This should be a lesson to all the guys, who is planning to join this scam website. Because there is no customer service number for this website so you cannot reach anybody to help you. And if these things happen, then you will see yourself behind the bars for no fault of yours. Because you would think that the website will screen the age of the woman, but they care less about it. Because women will join free and guys are going to pay for all the workers who are in Customer Service and to enrich the website owner and then the guys are the one who is going to pay for the games. The women play on the website.

Just wanted to alert the guys of the new type of illegal scams, which goes on the website. If you want to experiment yourself then yes you can join the website and pay huge amounts of money with no customer service and no accountability except you will be the victim and they will enrich off of you and you will be $2000 short every year for trying such a scam website just with their membership fees and then add all the scams you will come across. You may be five to $10,000 loss every year.

Ive been on here for 10 years the first 5 years were good. Half way decent people butstill doable. You got a lot of girls. Then 5 years ago the prostitutes came in and it was mostly prostitution. The last year or two, mostly scammers and 3s an4s thinking they're 10s. Its a quagmire, chest deep in acammers. Every girl from vegas is a scammer. Be carefull

Super lame profile text restrictions, like the site is being run by control freak, woke nitwits who are probably still wearing Covid masks in 2026. They don't allow even the most basic things, saying something like you are a successful investor is deemed "compensation for companionship". I mean the whole point of the site is younger women finding rich men. In addition, even with an age range preference specified of 25-40 in my search criteria, I still see profiles for 18-20 year old girls when I first log in, in spite of bringing this to the attention of customer service multiple times. Not to mention there is no easy way to block unattractive women so that you don't see them every time you scroll through profiles, you have to click on their profile and look at it, and then block it. Anybody with half a brain who wanted to actually make money for the site would fix this stuff. Membership isn't worth even a tenth of the price, there are very few attractive women on the site to begin with. Awful.

This is my third because I know if seeking has to look at these they won't put it out this is John asta like I said I've been thrown off 25 times these women start at 18 years old I banged over 70 of them over here beautiful blondes black women Colombians that come over with the Colombian cartels from New York it's unbelievable this is nothing but an escort prostitution website that should be taken down and I will be going on Joe Rogan soon to talk about this late I'm not going to lie about a lot of fun banging all these little kitties but they're wrecked for life they'll leave their state and go to another for a wedding and they'll switch their location and they'll bang somebody out there it's unbelievable killing all these kids and nobody knows about it in the state or the news but I will get it out there because I don't give a s*** and like I said every time I get on I have to use another friend's face because they have racial facial recognition and they know it's me so I have to use another friend's face unbelievable they go from anywhere from $500 to $2,000 for a PPM depending on where she's from

Been on and off I've been thrown off 25 times seeking arrangement is nothing but a prostitution website. All the women do were PPM and they started 18 years old. That's the same as being a hooker a pig escort but seeking makes it seem like it's OK for these kids destroying their lives. I've had over 70 of them here and I banged them all. It's unbelievable. The state should shut the site down. Will be going on a podcast to tell about this site soon.

The only thing that can happen there is you can get milked of your money by overseas scammers. Sites like NautyAF.com
offer a good choice of genuine girls (especially if you are from a big city) and if you know basic manners in communication with the women it won't take you long to go on a date. The only genuine people I met on SeekingArrangement were two mature ladies who lived in the countryside quite far away from me. They were not what I was looking for so when I realized how useless SeekingArrangement was I left it.

Ik ben een vrouw van 31 en ik had een nieuw account aangemaakt op Seeking met normale mooie foto’s van toen ik op vakantie was met een bio dat ik graag fijne connecties zoek en een stukje over mezelf.
Ik heb geen enkel gesprek gevoerd met andere gebruikers.

Toch werd mijn account kort daarna permanent geschorst, zonder duidelijke reden of concrete uitleg.

Vervolgens werd mij gevraagd mijn identiteitsbewijs te uploaden, wat ik te goeder trouw heb gedaan om te bewijzen dat ik geen fraudeur was.
Pas daarna kreeg ik te horen dat de beslissing definitief was en dat verdere communicatie niet meer zou worden beantwoord.

Wat ik zeer zorgwekkend vind, is het volledige gebrek aan transparantie, gecombineerd met het opvragen van gevoelige persoonsgegevens. Er is geen mogelijkheid tot uitleg, bezwaar of menselijke beoordeling.

Deze werkwijze voelt willekeurig, onprofessioneel, onveilig, oneerlijk en onrechtvaardig. Ik raad anderen sterk aan om zeer voorzichtig te zijn met het delen van persoonlijke en identiteitsgegevens op dit platform!

———- ENG

I am a 31-year-old woman and I created a new account on Seeking with normal, tasteful photos taken during my holidays, along with a bio stating that I am looking for genuine connections and a short description about myself.
I did not have a single conversation with any other users.

Despite this, my account was shortly afterward permanently suspended, without any clear reason or concrete explanation.

I was then asked to upload my identity document, which I did in good faith to prove that I was not committing fraud. Only after submitting my ID was I informed that the decision was final and that no further communication would be responded to.

What I find extremely concerning is the complete lack of transparency, combined with the request for sensitive personal data. There is no opportunity for explanation, appeal, or any form of human review.

This process feels arbitrary, unprofessional, unsafe, unfair, and unjust. I strongly advise others to be very cautious when sharing personal and identity information on this platform!

Negative star is too much

I am leaving this review to warn others: if you are looking for a genuine dating site, this is not it. If you report rule-breaking behavior, you risk losing your account and your money.

I signed up for Seeking expecting a legitimate dating platform, but my experience was the complete opposite and extremely frustrating.

From the moment I joined, 100% of my matches asked for money in exchange for meeting, either directly or indirectly. This was consistent across every single interaction I had on the site. Based on my experience, this platform operates far closer to a solicitation-for-compensation environment than a genuine dating site, which I believe is misleading and false advertising.

To make matters worse, my account was suspended on the very first day after I paid for a subscription. I cooperated fully with Seeking’s support team, responding promptly every time they contacted me. Despite this, it took over a week for my account to be reactivated — time during which I was paying for a service I could not use.

Once my account was finally restored, I followed Seeking’s own guidelines and reported users who were requesting money for sex or meetups. Every single match I had fell into this category. Shortly after reporting these users, my account was permanently deleted without any warning, explanation, or opportunity to appeal.

It strongly appears that reporting violations — even when following their stated rules — results in punishment of the reporting user rather than addressing the actual problem. I have now lost my subscription, which I effectively only had access to for about one day, with no refund and no communication.

This experience suggests that:
• Solicitation behavior is widespread on the platform
• Seeking is likely aware of it
• Users who report violations may be penalized instead of protected

Extremely disappointed and would not recommend.

Seeking advertise themselves as a high class dating website but in reality this is completely fraudulent. The women on there are prostitutes and escorts. If you say you want normal dates and don't want to pay cash for sex they close your account and steal your money

This is the weirdest site ever made. I didn’t even survive a week on here before deleting my profile wishing I didn’t accidentally get roped into it. All the girls on this site are prostitutes selling services and I’m not interested in this kind of bullcrap. There may be one or two nice girls who also, like myself, accidentally made an account on here, but I cannot imagine they would stay long on here upon realizing the filth it is. Consider myself a high value man and would never waste my time with a random escort whose slept with the entire city and then some. Not for me. This is a joke. I can see this lifestyle suiting more physically unattractive men who have no other way of getting anywhere with a woman but by paying explicitly for transactional services. Is prostitution not illegal? FBI needs to investigate this site.

This site is a complete scam. In the past week I’ve come across over 100 recently made profiles using stolen instagram photos. In each case the profiles have a selfie verification badge. This leads me to question if seeking is behind all these fake profiles. They claim to have advanced fraud detection, but all these profiles with stolen pictures are still getting selfie verified.