Valerian Sequeira - Awesome Husbands Hub Anmeldelser 144

My greatest life changing phase happened with Coach Val in the Awesome Husbands' Hub(AHH). He not only brought a turnaround in our lives but he turned out to be not less than God for us all in Awesome Husbands' Hub(AHH). A mentor, a guide, he is a lifelong companion now handholding us all teaching us all about life and relationships science. He has given us the direction and meaning of life.

I have been associated with him since September 2021 which is way before the date of experience allowed in this review.

AHH is a very big community of enlightened husbands who have brought a total turnaround in our lives, with the secret mantras repeated hammered to us all by our beloved Coach.

a. Teachings are very systematic.

b. We get more than what we spend for it- continuous motivation, non stop Daily Love practice session to keep a husband awake from its victim mentality and work upon himself.
c. Strong community support and broad insight
d. Books and movies refered here as
resources
e. Never you will feel spaced out or leave the process of transformation, because we along with coach has same feelings not to change others first , we just want to become awesome changing ourself first. The secret is that outside people also want to change themself , many counsellor or coach also tell this, we make it happen here though some times path is spiral.
f. Coach dnt false promise anything, or tell anything shortcut here.
g. We have real case studies discussed in a session run by elder and commited members.
h. We use enegram and sociogram to know why we behave in a particular way rather than we just keep banging by the teachings of wrong and right or I can say DO and DNT. These tools actually make u realise that every human being is different. This gives u clarity over our old fashioned thinking. This is breaking our most stereotype thinking and prejudice, practically I can say.
I. New courses are added by the organization time to time. New initiatives for empowering the husbands are tried along with the feedback of the members. This why this wonderful community of husbands are growing very holistically .
J. Presently this school has created more than few wonderful commited leaders who are willingly giving the time to welcome new members along with coach to this journey of explore life and relationship science.
K. App interface is so good. User friendly. Prompt reminders for everything. Course module has certificate in it which generated after complete.
L. Tracking of progress of course easily done.
M. Old wonderful lectures are there apart than necessary course modules.(Recently added course module "enegram at workplace".
Thanks for readers for taking ur time to read this. Never loose hope. Your time is now for taking ur decision. I can tell you all that those who are yet thinking should not or not. Definitely give it a try, I can say you can come to diamond membership. You will continuously gain. You will regret may be thinking that "why I could not join few years or months back " . Yet still it is not late.
We are staying in a trapped society telling the husbands that THEY CAN NOT CHANGE, but fact is that YOU CAN CHANGE, AND WIN ALSO, depend how commited how consistent you would take teachings. Here we say a BIG NO to people who has no intention to learn or change. The basics of learning starts with how to come out of victim mindset. The ground work of change no many counsellor works upon.

This community is inviting you all for all wonderful husbands with all our sincerity and prayer 🙏,and I can request that DNT RUIN YOUR LIFE IN HELL AND IN COURT and LISTENING INSULTS, rather we would help here to work on your thoughts as the time and resources we have and can help you transform ur life by yourself. It's worth taking. Believe in this line, join the course without calculation and
Break that stigma.

Think in that way, we go to doctor even for sneezing, aching for little bit of pain or a simple cut knowing that it my get worse. So then why we dnt get to this sort of counselling or learning session, may be our ego that stops us well - we know everything, this is more detrimental and would be further more.

Before life take its troll and we dnt recover at all, please join with thai learning organization. Would love to pray God that you get some insight reading this why you need to join, and knowing that you as husbands are not fearful and bold enough to transform your life . Welcome !!!!

From Diptamurti
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I initially joined n was in doubt whether my marriage would be saved or not , would it be worth of doing it. But as I followed all the process , and daily practice I literally started changes in myself and my daily habits. And definitely this changes are been noticed by my wife which makes her think about. I have learnt the actual science behind the marriage, and it's wonderful learning this things. And we get to have community of people same like us. Who help and guide each other, which is very worth.
I would definitely Recommend whoever is going through struggle

Coach Val has this knack of breaking down difficult concepts into simple understandable ones which any lay person can follow and actually practice. And that is what makes the difference. When something is practiced, it becomes a habit and developing positive habits is the key to a great life. Thank you, Coach, for transforming so many lives, including mine of course, for the better.

It's great experience with coach valerian. he helped me to see the positive mindset.

Great learnings transforming my attitude and personality day by day and bringing me closer to become an awesome person and husband. Teachings of coach Val and the big brothers of this community are truly inspiring and helping all the members to come out of the victim mindset and lead life with hero mindsets. Thank you, coach Val for what you do for the society. It's truly incredible. With love, respect and gratitude: Debasis

The program has helped me to focus on relationship science and self growth. The regular daily sessions helps to keep up the motivation and compounds the learning.

His courses helped me to be a better version of myself. it helped me in many spheres of my life.

Everything is possible with positive mindset. No need to listen lawyer advice that after FIR and divorce nothing is possible. Spouse will come back. You can bring back love by learning relationship signe with positive mind set.

It is very much possible to have great marriage.join this course

I am happy to be part of this community. I want to write honest review and it's been a miracle journey . The coaching and learnings has helped me to stay in hero mindset

This Super programme that Make you awasome and you automatically get her back

The course is a great help to understand myself and also helping me to transform completely to a better person.

Well my story is a total turn around of a man who was depressed.. scared... Alone.. disoriented about the future who was discussing mutual divorce on 10 July 2024... To a person who is Happy.... Positive.... In total love with himself... Understands the meaning of gratitude and feels happy about small small things daily in routine life, takes care of himself, goes for walk and swimming daily, properly groomed, no Criticism or judgement for anyone.... And as a By product I got a person.... Whose wife calls him up at least twice daily ... Regret her decision of moving out.... Happy talking to me... Asks me for date out and shopping with her and both my children and my mother as Happy and Motivated

Coach Val has been a blessing in my life. Thank you for all the support & guidance.

Coach Val given right path to become hero mindset,he clearly understand the our point of view and explain the issues with an example.thank you for your contribution for humanity.

I cannot express enough gratitude for the incredible guidance and support I received from Mr. Val during one of the most challenging times in my life. Facing a separation in my marriage, I felt lost and unsure of how to mend the relationship with my wife. Mr. Val's online coaching, rooted in the science of relationships and the enneagram, provided me with invaluable insights and practical strategies.

Mr. Val took the time to understand both my and my wife's enneagram types, creating a detailed map that highlighted our unique dynamics and challenges. His personalized approach helped me comprehend the underlying issues and offered a clear path to reconciliation. Through his expert guidance, I learned how to effectively communicate, empathize, and handle difficult situations with grace and understanding.

Thanks to Mr. Val's coaching, I have seen significant improvements in my relationship with my wife. His wisdom, compassion, and practical advice have been instrumental in helping me rebuild trust and connection. I highly recommend Mr. Val to anyone seeking to improve their relationships and navigate challenging times. His expertise in relationship science and the enneagram is truly transformative.

Thank you, Mr. Val, for helping me on this journey and giving me the tools to get my wife back. Your support has made all the difference.

This course is amazing, and all credit goes to coach Val. It helps us become the better version of ourselves and by learning relationship science, it truly transforms your relationship. If you stay consistent in learning and implementation, then you will be able to bring back love. I would definitely recommend this course to everyone who is going through some struggle in their relationship & want things to improve.

How Awesome Husbands Hub- AHH transformed our marriage?

Our courtship period was filled with romance stage, but on the day of marriage, I had a strong intuition that our marriage would be very difficult.
Problems began with dominant in-laws. With each day I was deeply hurt, there was a big silence on conversation with my husband. He stone walled from the beginning & later ran away whenever I wanted to have a conversation.

After few months I started criticising, with time he went to defensive mode. We were 2 individuals living under the same roof, conflicts & ugly fight were very common. We never trusted, understood, connected, supported & mattered to each other. We were happy in our own worlds. There were very few days filled with love that never lasted long, because it was over powered by the previous & next hurt episodes. With time the only thing we did religiously was hurt each other in every possible way.

I had changed unconsciously from an happy, optimistic & vivacious person into an pessimistic person ranting about my husband & inlaws every single day. The only thing I derived happiness was by hurting my husband. I started looking forward to receive hurt to return it back (in 2 folds) & the loop continued.This went on for 6 long years, slowly I realised the person I hated the most & my biggest enemy was my husband.
Neither of us were happy in the marriage, we would want to run away from each other. This was not a way I wanted to lead my life, many a times I sat down my husband to make him realise how we could improvise our relationship, but nothing worked. With time I used to hate when the clock turned 5pm (he used to return from work), sundays and holidays.

6 yrs was long time, I was leading a miserable life, I gave a thought for almost 7-8 months & realised divorce was the only option to get rid of everything.
Then with the unmanageable challenges (emotional, mental and financial) I decided to leave the house & lived seperately for almost 1 yr.

During one of our conversations my husband agreed for the first time in 6 yrs that he was wrong. He didn't force me to move in with him but requested, I started noticing small changes in him.
I moved in with him again wanting to give him the last chance, but knew I would be disappointed yet another time. I never knew about AHH & things started changing. It had been 15 days we didn't fight, I thought we would end up fighting in a months time. But to my surprise we might have had small conflicts that ended in half an hour (unlike before which lasted for months & weeks) with talking over & sorting it out (which never happened in the past). But no fight/argument were emotionally draining like before. Thats when I knew it was the magic of AHH.
Being into AHH my husband totally changed he took initiative for conversation, he started becoming optimistic, acknowledging & for the first time in 6 yrs he used the words "sorry & thank you" genuinely, he started helping me in household chores & the list goes on & on. And with this even I started changing unknowingly. From WORST not to BETTER but he became my BEST half.

Within a month we started living happily. For the first time in 6 yrs I felt I am married & for good. My husband became my best friend & I could talk to him about anything & there was tremendous positivity in each of his words.
I just wanted him to be a good husband but he transformed into a BEST HUMAN & this was possible only because of Coach Val & AHH.

Now at present since 2 yrs we are connected at a deeper level, more than love I have immense respect for my husband. If he get hurt I get hurt, his pains are mine & vice versa. We trust each other blindly & seek each other's help for any suggestions.

He was no doubt into an HERO MINDSET, & I was into the VICTIM MINDSET, seeing him transform tremendously, I was curious about AHH. His transformation helped me become a better version of myself (Personally, Professionally & Socially) with the knowledge he passed on to me about relationship science.

Fortunately I had an opportunity to be a part of MEETING THE GODDESS WORKSHOP. Now with MTG, I see the dots connect & for sure I am in my best form at present. We are leading a calm, peaceful and happy life with all the learnings. Now I look forward for happiness & inturn return 2 folds to my husband.

There are no more conflicts & fight now, we at times have difference of opinion, which gets sorted over a discussion. At present we support, motivation & understanding each other.

After 6 yrs of power struggle, I had never imaged even in my dreams that our marriage would be such amazing. If not for AHH I don't know where we would have landed up.

Every time we think we feel that this came as a blessing from the universe through Coach Val.

Thanks Coach Val for helping us transforming our&many more marriages from a struggling cocoon into a beautiful & colourful butterfly.

Hellow Awesome Husband's n Wonderful Goddesses,

"All relationships go through help, but...but...but....only the real relationships gets through it"

A very meaningful quote that speaks by itself and we were real example...as we all go through the stages in relationship, ours started deteriorating from 2017 which was jst 2 years after our Arranged Marriage..minor differences n fights were like a part of routine untill end of 2021 which was horrible where lack of communication, coordination, trust, love, or even basic friendship had gone for toss but the main concern was having a toddler(our daughter) involved with us and seeing our disputes n silences

My husband was referred about this coach by close friend and he joined the club from 2021 n he was totally dedicated n committed to all the activities that are designed by Coach Val coz my husband wanted to save our relationship while I was totally unsure, the only reason why I would live with him was for sake of daughter as I didn't wan suffering for her

I was observing some changes in him, though it wasn't making alot of difference to me bt i felt when he can do why can't I try, i did try few options but they all lifted my emotions at some point n other i was put deeply down

After almost 1.5 year of religious practices I wasn't responding to him very positively untill one day when he gave me an ultimatum to call off the relation as he didn't have more patience to deal with me

I was disturbed, confused, sad, ineffective n inefficient to make any decision where Coach Val came us with Meeting The Goddesses Workshops for females of Awesome Husband's

My Learnings from Meeting The Goddesses Workshops are
- Relationship as Science
- Stages of Marriage
- Drama Triangle
- Victim mindset
- Perspectives
- Mirror Neurones
- Personality types
- My Beliefs, Thoughts, Behaviours, Actions, Habit Building
- I am Pain to live with
- Emotional Intelligence
- Conversation & Communication
- Connecting the dots & way forward
- 4 Master Behaviours

Now I see positive changes in myself too and have developed in Gratitude, Appreciation, Apologizing, Communicating positively, helping & supporting eachother, developed trust and friendship...and now it has developed like a habit n our daughter also is learning all this positive things and slowly gradually I am developing positive relationship not only at my home bt with friends, families, workplace atleast I am not too stressed n worried

Coach Val has really n genuinely empowered us and our relationship that was sinking in the stormy sea n he has been saviour to create better future for ourselves and for our daughter N we shall truely remain indebted for the rest of our lives

Let this mesge spread like fire and even one couple reads n accepts this, i am sure many house will be saved from anything negative n a child will never suffer n remain in harmony

We need more people like Coach Val n together we all can surely make a beautiful world to live in

Best wishes to everyone...have a beautiful n fruitful journey of this life n stay blessed n healthy n happy n in love

Thank you for reading n appreciating my thoughts

Best wishes & Warm Regards,
Dharini & Urmil Shah