Awful moderation and terrible privacy
Was a long time user of this site and always had quite a few gripes but above all the moderation is quite frankly ridiculous meaning I've given up on it. The last straw for me was my moderator approved profile, which was unchanged since approval was suddenly deactivated because a moderator decided one of my pictures broke the no close up XXX pictures rule - i had 1 X rated picture which was within the rules, no close up. Ok, whatever, deleted the picture and submitted for reapproval. Denied because my profile about me was too short, again, this hadn't changed from when my profile was originally approved. Other things to be aware of with this site is users can pay to see who viewed their profile which lead to a number of awkward messages in my inbox asking me why I didnt add them after looking at their profile...what a weird feature! Also, if you're fem presenting, there is nothing you can do to stop unwanted male admirers messaging you constantly. You also have to add a location which will be public, yes you can use a fake location but then the proximity search is useless.
So in summary, crazy power trip moderation that rivals sub reddit mods, stalker like features and terrible privacy options. Avoid this site and use Fetlife, which is a far superior site without ridiculous moderators and much better privacy options for things like messages and your location.








